love and luck

Love
1.
A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
2.
A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.

Luck
1.
a combination of circumstances, events, etc., operating by chance to bring good or ill to a person: She's had nothing but bad luck all year.
2.
some object on which good fortune is supposed to depend: This rabbit's foot is my luck.

You could say that you're lucky to find the one you love. Personally, I think it's a combination of being at the right place at the right time to find your one and only, and making a decision. The decision being whether or not to make that person a permanent part of your life.

Questions to ask yourself while making this decision:
*Can you see this person being a good friend and partner to you?
*Can you see this person being able to talk to you about anything, and you the same?
*Can you see this person being a good rolemodel to possible future children?
*Can you see this person taking care of you and being faithful to you?
If you answer yes to these questions, then you know what your decision should be. If you answer no to any of them, whats the point? Why waste your time, love and heart on someone who won't appreciate it?

Once you have made this important decision, you have to know, understand, and realize that it isn't always kisses and butterflies. It takes a lot more than lyrics and doodles to keep a relationship going. You have to be able and willing to decide that you will do anything to make things work.

After you think about everything, then decide to have kids.

Not before.